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DEFiantly counseling, someone that specializes in Aspergers. Also remember that Aspie's biggest issue is communication, and if you don't get counseling to learn how so communicate then it's probably not going to work out. That's why there is such a high divorce rate, because of lack of communication.
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It's not money, or things like that, it's communication. I don't know what my life would look like without him? It would be hard now to start over, everyone has some crazy I tell myself. I only feel the need to work this through because of my boys they are teens but it is hard for them to understand this.
We suffer in silence, his family pretends he's normal, they keep him at arms length I think its just less painful for them. I am in desperate need of some kind of emotional connection. I love my husband.
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I'm determined phonf find a way to make a life together. No adult phone chat line no date sight please have children that would be irrevocably scarred if we didn't. And one of our children was diagnosed with classic autism at age two and currently functions completely in drama and a public school setting in a charter school. So if there is any woman married to a man on the spectrum out there interested in exchanging numbers and texting or email or something I could really use a friend that actually understands.
Instead of a world of people who say My husband and I were just discussing this last night. Pohne he is constantly mis reading me and other situations. How he feels frustrated that he tries and tries, but still misses out, even in social settings. We have a LOT of communication issues.
But since we have a son diagnosed with Aspergers, we at least have something we can hold on to. We understand what is going on, but fixing it is definately a challenge. Many evenings are usually watchign tv, working on plesae computer or flat out arguing Nothing in between.
We have tried therapy, but my husband doesn't see anything wrong with HIM! He lives by the adage if it isn't squeeking, then it doesn't need the Respectful women only please, No adult phone chat line no date sight please it doesn't get attention.
WE just talk about it all night and then forget about it until the next time. WE have been married for 15 years this way. Not healthy, but we are adapting.
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My health is terrible and there is no help or hope in sight. Not sure what I should do or how to get help.
I have been married to an aspie for 49 years. He has retired three times but keeps going back after a few months. He uses the excuse of credit card debt which I piled while searching for something to fill the void.
It has been a sex less marriage for 20 years due time his health I guess. Now he has stage 4 cancer and is once again picking work over me.
It is only a few days a week but I feel rejected not a new feeling. I am hollow and so far beyond sad. I live on antidepressants and he just acts like life is fine. It has been a year since your post here -- I wonder if you ON faced loss of your husband due to the cancer, by this time? Regardless, I understand the isolation and void you describe -- 27 years to my AS husband- similar story regarding lack of intimacy.
I would encourage you to live for your own joy and fulfillment -- you are worth it. I found help in Al-Anon similar No adult phone chat line no date sight please, different 'A'-word. You cannot say whether someone is worth it or not Better Adult Dating Village-mills-TX horny housewife they are a total stranger and you know absolutely nothing about them beyond a short post in a lie That is their decision and their decision alone.
Living with an AS spouse is hard but what really makes life unbearable for me is everyone else thinking they have the right to tell others what they should think and feel instead of helping them be true to their own values.
This post has some wonderful advice.
As a wife of an aspie for 12 years, I'd like to add some dietary changes. My husband is taking very good quality digestive enzymes, and they have helped so much.
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This is late in responding to a anon, but "get out". My advice to all women neurotypicals married to Aspies, as described above, you are NOT happy, are struggling, getting picked on, dealing with fights and melt-downs, it does NOT get better - it gets worse! Get out early while you can have a life. You're not doing Anyone any favors - your Aspie husband and not yourself. You will end up regretting not having a life. Let your Aspie husband find an Aspie wife. You find a Neurotypical husband.
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Do NOT stay for the children, do not put up fronts, get out while you're young enough to start another life with normalcy, or you will look back and regret you had no life.
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Let the Aspies marry other Aspies. You go get in a nurturing, caring relationship. These two comments turned my stomach. Go find cjat someone so-called neurotypical People are complex, and their situations are complex. I may not be typical, but it doesn't take a genius to know that everyone is unique and complex. Saying "get out" is destructive at best. Well, Jacob just proved our point! Unless your Aspie really, really tries to make it better, gets therapy, and owns his behavior, get out now.
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You will suffer- unheard and not not understood. It is very lonely as they are incapable of empathy and appropriate response to your adulf.
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