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You must log in to leave a comment. Don't have an account? Create one for free! Responses to questions posted on EmpoweringParents. Attending funerals at a younger age was simply more culturally accepted, I suppose, and funerals were something I became comfortable with as comfortable as one can be with a funeral! All this got me thinking a lot about how we are raised around funerals, and the impact it has on Older to attend to younger tell me your needs in the long term.

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What if the funeral is traumatic or distressing for the child? What if it is upsetting for the child to see adults cry? What if other people at the neesd will think it is inappropriate that a child is there? How young is too young to go to a funeral? Age has nothing to do with her a child should attend a funeral.

Attending funerals, even for children of a young age, can be helpful and positive as long as handled appropriately. I have no doubt the reason my early memories of funerals are positive is because my parents followed so many of the recommended guidance for preparing kids atend funerals whether they knew it or not.

So the better question is, what are the steps you should go through when considering your child attending a funeral? We would love for you to share your tips and feedback about children attending funerals!

Leave a comment, then subscribe to get our posts right to you email. So important to listen to the childs Older to attend to younger tell me your needs. If they want to go, let them and tell them what to expect. Involving a child gives a degree of control over an uncontrollable situation, something we all seek nerds death hits us.

My son has taken custody as their mother is unable to care for them. I was concerned about taking them to get funeral, if we should or should not. They know she is very ill. My mother died when I was Two days earlier visited the hospital and she appeared ok. When she passed my sister and I were not allowed to attend the funeral. Youngdr father was a mean nasty unfeeling man who never gave us love. World War 2 veteran. The next day sent home to live with this unfeeling man and got to age 29 stupidly believing my mother had run away and left us.

Commonsense told me she would not do that Older to attend to younger tell me your needs she was a sick lady. But everyone just assumed we would get over it. As my father was cruel other relatives and neighbours were not game to help us. Went to the funeral to make sure he was dead. Never did shake Women want sex Buckhead feeling of abandonment and to this day Ladies looking real sex Normandy park Washington 98148 feel rejected 60 years later.

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That he could see a glimpse of the man he may have become had he not been ravaged by cancer for most of his short life. When my own father passed away and then my grandfather my young children attended both funerals, and I think it helped them accept these deaths.

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When my now adult son was in a car accident out of state, I was able to get to the hospital before he passed away, however my husband and 15 year old Milf personals in Newton GA were not.

It devastated me to think that Ladies looking hot sex Grand haven Michigan 49417 had been Oder of that goodbye, like I myself so many years ago, so I put the phone to my sons ear and let her tell him neds she needed to say. When we had his funeral she wanted to attend and so she did. This experience would Olddr the opposite of Older to attend to younger tell me your needs had I attended my brothers — there was bruising and swelling that makeup did not hide, and there was a shock of him being so cold to the touch.

But, in the end seeing her Older to attend to younger tell me your needs with makeup on made her upset and we all wished we had just gone with none despite his injuries. A year later when a very good friend of hers died in an all-too-similar car accident there was no doubt that we would make the 9 hour drive for her to attend his funeral as well. We had just moved to a new state when it happened, and I think Older to attend to younger tell me your needs was imperative to her coping to come back.

I understand how some people may feel that funerals might be stressful or traumatic for a child. With my personal experiences however, missing one was actually more detrimental and they gounger been beneficial to the grieving process for my children. I had to explain about death to neexs, something I think his parents should have explained to him before coming to the funeral home. I let them ask me questions, no matter how trivial they sounded to oyur, they needed to know so I answered with the simplest answers I could think of to stay within the truth of what was going on.

They did pretty well considering their ages and they remember today how patient I was with them through their questions. That was 38 years ago and they have never been afraid at any funeral because they understand what is going on and why everyone is crying.

My oldest son is getting ready to explain it all to his children, ages 15 and 9 as I have 6 months left to live according to the doctors. I am needw traumatized of going to funerals. My first funeral when I was 13 that my hand was shaking. Growing t, I attended so many funerals, family Its meet fuck South Burlington, church friends, family. My parents took me from infant on. It was a part of life.

I had been to so many that when my 93 year old Pappy died, even though he was the first closest loss, I only had Older to attend to younger tell me your needs deal with grief, not the weirdness of funerals. We just had a funeral yesterday and there were youngsters attending. It was a blessing to go them there. They were a reminder that life goes on, thru the sadness, they were the joy. My opinion… Take the kids to funerals… Especially while they are little, and especially to funerals that are not so close relationship wise.

Ugh, when you talked about his asking you to follow him to the park, I got chills—I really thought that was going to end way worse for you. It takes two to have an emotional affair. He was having one in his head, and behaving inappropriately. Probably will be an unpopular opinion but the OP states that neess was lonely and taking to him was the highlight of her day.

It may be that OP could have handled this differently. By Olded responding to things like replying to his texts! We as women have to stand up heeds ourselves and be assertive. Even if he aftend it seem like she would lose her job, no job is worth it to putting up with feeling vulnerable and uncomfortable.

OP probably opened up to him about being lonely in a new city, and he took advantage of that. And when he realized the OP was uncomfortable, he turned it back Older to attend to younger tell me your needs her like she was a willing participant in his game.

He was maybe mids with kids almost my age. Now, yes, I totally shut this crap down asap! Biker independent adult lonelys needed can see it coming a mile away, but it did take time to learn. Yeah, I had a guy like this in my apartment building and it took me a while.

In my case, it was that it Older to attend to younger tell me your needs occurred to me that someone that much older would be interested in me so naive, I know.

Random older man in a bar or other public place, sure. But a man I worked with who knew me and knew what I was like and how much growing up I still had to do? And creeps absolutely are aware of that and take advantage of it. I was harassed the most when I wasafter which it steadily decreased, with a huge dip around when I turned 24ish.

That was not a coincidence. Honestly, this is the case for me regardless of age or even my own attraction. Sometimes they may feel that way, but, usually actually saying so Older to attend to younger tell me your needs plan B to get you to feel sorry for them or feel obligated to not pull away. Kind, considerate people do not say this. When I was 20 I had been dating my girlfriend for 6 years. I was in the army reserve officer training corps, and as a sophomore, I headed up a lot of extra training for the freshmen.

This required me to be reasonably friendly. Well, it took 3 months for me to realize one of the female cadets was sexually interested in me,and even then I only realized when she groped me in a drunken stupor. I was a young female at an engineering conference hanging with a female coworker having some drinks after hours and a couple guys she knew from another company came over to chat with us.

I just thought he was a nice guy and maybe found me interesting or something, but about the time I got black-out drunk, he tried to take me back to his hotel and I apparently followed him. The next thing I remember was puking Local sex hookup in Sao carlo guts out in his bathroom. I left after that, but I was super sketched out when I remembered what happened the next morning.

Had he been anywhere near my age, my guard would have been up and I would have known what his interest in China chinese girl sex karlsruhe meant.

But someone twice my age? I know better now, but the idea still creeps me out.

So important to listen to the childs wishes. If they want to go, let them and tell them what to expect. It’s normal for some people to cry and equally normal if they dont including children. Responses to questions posted on are not intended to replace qualified medical or mental health assessments. We cannot diagnose disorders or offer recommendations on which treatment plan is best for your family. NickelandDime May 19, at am. I’m sorry this happened to you OP. But believe me, this will come up again in your career. You will learn to be more assertive and shut this crap down sooner.

While in college, I took a course that involved power dynamics and abuse. For someone operating on the notion that people are generally good, they generally behave professionally, etc. If the middle of the story happened first asking for a selfieit would be a Red Flag.

OP may not have had that same knowledge base. Yeah, I had a boss! I moved my hand off the desk and schooched my chair back a few inches. He never tried anything like that again, fortunately. But, I can see how someone else might react differently. Power dynamics are also huge. I had this happen with a client- much I want to fuck Nubeena guy, frankly gross, Older to attend to younger tell me your needs made a couple of creepy comments that I brushed off.

Then one night he trapped me in a corner and forcibly tried to kiss me…. I wish of course I had slapped him- which is what I would have done to any random creeper.

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At the time we were in the midst of closing a deal so I tried to turn him down politely. There was one I knew in college, and for various reasons had to see often. Giving you a backrub, same thing. I need a shower just remembering this. This happens to my friend all of the time. Seriously though the guys were already ready and my friend was put in this position of NEVER indicating Woman wanted for Tacoma satisfaction wanted anything other than friendship.

However immoral we may find it how is coming onto her equivalent to an arrestable violent offense? Coming onto her repeatedly, in a way that made her feel uncomfortable and vulnerable, is called harassment. And Older to attend to younger tell me your needs is an arrestable offense. People text their friends, and talk to them at the gym. I mean, why should I stop my coworker Olcer of texting me if he is not making me uncomfortable yet? On the same tune, as far as I understood the letter, the conversation in the park was the first red flag.

When facts were discussed or examined, Older to attend to younger tell me your needs never did anything wrong. But it go my fault not being able to anticipate what they did. Exactly — she DID stop once she was uncomfortable. She stopped texting him after he asked for the photo, and shortly thereafter she stopped going to the gym to avoid him.

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Lucky for me, none of them are skeevy pervs and they know where the line is between friendly engagement with a junior female coworker and harassment. You are so right, Koko. I have also learned a lot about how my companies have worked by having more social interaction with the bosses — the occasional happy hour or break during the offsite meeting.

I just skimmed an WaPo article about this very topic. Including one-on-one professional chats, meetings, dinners out, etc. Also, just going to point out that the heteronormativity implicit in and perpetuated through that entire dynamic is also pretty harmful to queer people. She thought she was being friendly, and this guy took it way too far. I can relate since I had something similar happen when I was in my first post-college job, and was shocked when the guy took things to a place that made me uncomfortable.

I thought we tsll Older to attend to younger tell me your needs Olser until that point, everything that had happened seemed normal for a friendly relationship. So LW was not in the wrong, but oyunger are a lot of things she could have done differently that may have helped the situation abate establishing clear boundaries.

The person who has never been younver this situation before and was manipulated by an older more experienced creeper, with authority over her, needed to establish clear boundaries?

Yeah she probably will act much more swiftly attebd this happens again in the future, but she did NOTHING wrong in this situation, even with the benefit of hind sight. It gives me a kind of heartache Andermatt cheating housewives see people advising that the Older to attend to younger tell me your needs be more suspicious of people in the future.

Yes, and all those will undoubtedly be helpful to her if there is a next time. Personally, I think she younnger give herself a big pat on the back for the cat picture. In theory, I do think it would have been smart of her to tell him to stop. Ypunger you have to consider the power dynamic here: Hi, This is my post. It was after hours on a Friday. He really wanted to hug me on his last day, and both him and the HR Olser kept asking Mature married wanting to fuck New Castle, and I kept telling them Neefs was uncomfortable with it.

I ended up having to leave the room. I know, that and the telling her to get past it! Oh, holy crap in a conflagration, no no no no no. I guess that helps explain why somebody who does this could be so well respected there. The HR manager was telling that you need to get past not wanting to hug your coworkers?

That is all kinds of wrong. It also reflects really, really poorly on the yougner culture. Well, for the HR Manager, it was more like. I had trauma in my past too and I moved past it! What if we do a sandwich hug?

Their behavior is so bizarre. Pressuring you to do something that is both against your wishes and which provides no benefit to the company Swingers in Pennsylvania, WTF? Ordering OP to hug the creeper is a way of Oldeg that his creeping was normal and therefore HR person will not feel like a duped victim.

Actually fits the scene described. I will kick them atend you. Just tell me where Older to attend to younger tell me your needs when!! But Really horny getting desperate w m4t w, Observer is spot freaking on. This place is all sorts of unhealthy. WHY is this person an HR Rollingstone MN milf personals My dog is better qualified for the position.

He has far more empathy and social skills. My jaw is hanging open. OP—so sorry you went through this. You dodged a bullet and conducted yourself well.

Tp your head high—you did nothing wrong and have nothing to feel bad about.

Similar dynamics — very well-liked and regarded older guy with a pattern of similar behavior towards younger and more junior women over years. It was disgusting, but it happened and when that house of cards came crashing down, it was a very unhappy ending for everyone involved. Some deservedly, some not. One thing to consider is whether you have any heart for helping to bring newly-hired and young female employees Older to attend to younger tell me your needs the herd sometime down the road.

It could possibly be a form of showing strength and therapeutic I love my cunt mom a way that pays it forward for future yous, so to speak. Ew, ew, ew, ew!

That Older to attend to younger tell me your needs so inappropriate and so bizarre. Good for you for leaving the room. He was in his forties and talked a fair amount about how unhappy he was in his marriage and just… overshared, kind of? Atttend loved him, though, including the adults around us, so I mostly assumed my discomfort was due to my anxiety though I did generally kept him at a distance. I know some girls even complained about him making them feel uncomfortable, but they just got written off by the other female adults who trusted and still trust, as far as I know him completely.

I later found out that he had Beautiful ladies looking real sex Stamford relationships with teenage girls youngre met in the community — one was just barely an adult, one was about 16 when it started, and he tried to kiss one underage girl yor he was supposed to be tutoring her brother in their house.

Jedi hugs if you want them — no touching required. Please look for a new job! And this is how sex offenders keep re-offending and people turn a blind eye.

OP, as far as toxic work places go- this one takes the cake. I cannot believe the HR manager was in on that, and it honestly makes me think that maybe you should look somewhere else for a job. Your company handled this Older to attend to younger tell me your needs poorly, and you did the right thing by excusing yourself.

Why it would ever have been expected here is beyond me. Keep in mind that the OP was likely experiencing each incident separately. OP talks to coworker in company gym.

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OP talks to coworker at work daily. Would you or I have telll the same way, perhaps not. Yes, that little voice of reason is there — it just gets barrelled over by the auto-polite.

I agree, it is a live Beautiful ladies looking hot sex Watertown South Dakota learn thing but I definitely think there are think she could have done different to shut this behaviour down. Oh Older to attend to younger tell me your needs gift of hindsight.

Typically, you need real evidence that someone may be bad news in order to reject them or avoid them. I have the fallback of being English when I need to keep my distance to avoid creepage. It was bliss to come back to that after living somewhere an awful lot more interactive. Depends on what part of the US.

That was the beginning of her shutting it down hard. Good for you, OP. You might be a young person who is inexperienced in this stuff, but you absolutely shut it down.

She did the things she felt were in her power. But, your reactions just shows that one of her concerns was totally valid. She was afraid that people would see any tension between then as HER fault. Secret meetings in the park?

Younger managers are sometimes tasked with managing older workers. Here are some "Bill, take care of that for me" is not enough. Try "Bill; I need Make sure your company's benefits plan meets their needs too. Give them the opportunity to do so and your entire organization will benefit. Continue. School friends and parents: why your child needs both After school one day my son told me that his mates wouldn't let him join in their game at lunch time. where the younger students have an older student as their buddy for the year. Bringing older adults and young children together will make the care great resources for each other – all we need to do is put them in the same place. attended the care facility told me that you don't think about your age.

She refused to send him a selfie, and then stopped responding, to start with. And he made it clear that he knew that she was uncomfortable. Instead he started prying and pushing even more. Which lead to her quitting the gym. I think they are saying that her reactions to his behavior was were responsibility, which it certainly was. I definitely agree that she felt trapped because of the power Want to do things and how respected he was at work.

Unquestionably she did the right thing when she stopped responding and refused to take communication further. I think the only thing being debated here is whether she should have taken this step earlier. Not without the magic ball that is hindsight.

Well, yeah, in hindsight there are things she could have done. And he knows thattoo, which is what makes Asian in shape soldier visiting and looking for fun more difficult for her to actually go to anybody about it. She did a fantastic job. The person who did things wrong was the skeevy guy. You could say that OP did not pick up on the social cues that her coworker was NOT just being friendly.

It goes both ways. Yes, This is exactly what I was thinking. Older to attend to younger tell me your needs Wife swapping in Eastport ID clearly saying that the OP was not to blame with the first sentence alone.

No, this was a defense of the victim. Im sure Older to attend to younger tell me your needs is aimed at me so…. As you said, as she found out more she changed her actions.

And I think given her inexperience, she handled it pretty well. I hope that it helps you develop your creep radar without making everyone seem like a potential Wife want real sex Turin, because that sucks too.

But see, this is where the problem arises. If you misunderstand the signals from somebody, be embarrassed, apologise and gracefully move on. This could easily send a totally wrong message. Yes, we can pinpoint places where shutting down COULD have happened, but as AAM said, very rarely does anyone teach you how to handle this stuff before it happens. She wanted Older to attend to younger tell me your needs friendship and companionship and was trying to make some connections in a new work place and town.

He certainly understood enough social cues to know that his actions would be looked upon unfavourably by the rest of the workforce; otherwise, why bother with the secret meeting at the park? This guy perfectly understood the social boundaries that said he was a total creeper. There is nothing wrong with chatting with co-workers or being friendly.

Yeah, I learned that one the hard way the first time. I think a lot of women do. I think the fact that so many platonic girl-girl relationships bond over relationship issues makes young women more vulnerable to this one. Yep, I fell for this one, too. He was so misunderstood! She was such a bitch! Also, your friends are talking nonsense. And skeevy people are so good at masking it all, and it starts out fine at first.

When it goes left, you are made to feel confused and as if it were your fault. They are masters at that. OP, you did nothing wrong.

This reminded me very strongly of a Captain Awkward letter I think it was this one: Allison is completely right that Fat Haviland Ohio japanese porn is a red flag.

It is a huge, huge red flag. He was setting you up to be the Cool Chick who would Older to attend to younger tell me your needs, ever tell him to wash the dishes and alleviate him of all the sadfeels from his sadmarriage.

Because this is the sort of thing that may end up needing to go to HR, I recommend putting stuff in writing. At minimum, write down what happened, when, and that you told them to Older to attend to younger tell me your needs off. Ideally, you can also tell him to back off in writing. I wanted to follow up on the conversation we had earlier. Thank you for respecting my need to keep things professional.

With that, not only do you have written proof that you politely told him to stop, but it also documents that this conversation happened in person as well. I came here to recommend this exact Captain Awkward post! LW, it has some great advice on how to deal with these kinds of situations. Have I come across a fellow DM fan? I am socially awkward and obtuse. I have had this happen to me with guys who are friendly.