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I know my readers are going to miss my blog. You bet your ass I cried before sitting down to write this post. And that makes me equal parts terrified and so, so happy. Luckily, this trip taught me how to shirk the fear. I have a piece about bipolar People wanting sex Grace Mississippi and nonmonogamy coming out soon fingers crossed with New York Magazine.
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