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I confronted him via text that I like him but do not want to be deceived, and then he described the relationship as casual. I am just looking for confirmation that this guy is full of crap and just using me. Thank you for this article! I have been really seeing things differently in the last year with how I am dating. I am learning that to develop something solid and meaningful, it takes time.
Enter the guy I am dating now. We started off as friends late last year and then one thing led to another and we were on a date, dating and sleeping together. He and I both have expressed that we have never been able to be in a relationship without being completely intertwined with the other person; that we both were scared of that happening again.
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Meeting kids, Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl over, making changes when your partner brings up an issue — those are all great signs. Maybe he has a hang up about calling you his girlfriend? Thanks for your reply, Ryan! Does that have more to do with what I want out of it?
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Let me know how it goes! I am a gay male and I have been talking to a guy that I have known now for over a year now, we met online and have started a long distance type of relationship where I go out to see him at least once a month and we are always in constant communication either through snapchat, facetime, texts, etc. He is still going through a coming out process and I have now been introduced to his close friends and roommates and his brothers and sisters know about me now but not his parents.
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We love to just spend time with each other and we can have fun just sitting at the beach or out with friends or in bed watching TV. He tells me he loves me all the time and that no matter how, he wants me in his life for a very long time.
Please help me in figuring this puzzle in my head! For me, the relief of honesty is worth the risk of rejection. Think about the implications of living in the closet: The only way I can live is to hide who I really am. People will reject and judge me. It hurts me to know people experience that on a daily basis, and I hope your boyfriend can overcome this obstacle in his life. Ryan, thank you for your reply. It brought a lot of insight. A little more insight to the situation, Christian has an older sister that came out as a lesbian about 3 years ago, for a while after, his family cut communication and it really tore the family apart.
Today, there is communication with her and she has attended SOME family events but for the most part, there is little communication with her and their family which weighs heavy to Christian. Christian and I never expected our interaction to take this road, we never knew that we would fall for each other the way we have, to have developed this love for each other. I truly care for him and I want to fulfill this journey to be with him, I want him to be happy with the choice he ends up making.
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I have never felt this way about a man before, to want to be with him not just from a sexual perspective but to truly care about him and his safety and to want to be there for him through this………. Are all these signs that he wants me to be around for a long time even if there is conflict in his head? Careful with the concept of obligation, that can be a really dangerous road. Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl decision his parents made was incredibly short-sighted and ignorant.
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Over long periods of time, the peg slides around the spectrum to wherever the tension of the elastic is pulling it. Imagine Christian in between coming out and not. You, his siblings, yirl his supportive friends are a positive force stretching the elastic towards acceptance, openness, and authentic expression of who he is.
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Thank you again for your insight, we shall see where this road leads me to. I would always be upfront with them that i had kids, but the would always seem after 2 or 3 dates to stop taking to me. I felt the private setting was more appropriate to bring up that I had kids. I honestly just want a relationship w someone bc I want companionship. Imagine three types of guys on an online dating site:.
So hoping you can give me some advice. We met through a mutual friend vasual I was with my ex of 5 years, we never initiated anything sexually or emotionally until after I was broken up with my ex for sometime. He even invited me to play on his co-ed baseball team this summer with his friends. Hello, so I need help. Well we made plans to meet right off the bat as a casual fling.
We meet and things happened. The next day I went through my day like any other all the while not really giving the casuall before much thought. To me it was a one night stand, or so I thought. Later that night he texted requesting for me to go over to his place again. Then things just started to go down hill mi there. About 5 days after that we literally spent 12 hours a day together 7 days a week.
But everytime I try he shuts me down and we end up in bed.
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December is months away but he has plans for us already. Think of your life like train tracks, and you travelling along them. A great relationship is when two sets of tracks converge and run parallel. You know what you want to do. You might like this post I wrote on break ups: What does it mean!Married Wife Looking Sex Santa Rosa Beach
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When I asked him what it meant he said its just sex and gigl wanted to quit and we did call it off. After a week, he comes by my place and says he is sorry and that he really likes me, he told me how he was badly hurt by his last girlfriend and he stopped dating for 2 years as his mom told him to focus on graduating but he did have one night stands. When he wanted to be intimate after that, I Couple looking for single tampere him that its going to lead to me liking him eventually and he said he was fine with that.
We became fb friends and all his friends knew me compared to the first few months. Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl buys me gifts, pay for me and compliments me. However, 1 I am not sure if I am still there because of the sex?
Also, recently I came across a fb message of his with another girl. He still talks to her now August but there wasnt anything sexual, she did say Love as her last message. I know this was not right on my part to be looking at his fb messages.
Also, 3 I am Asian and hes Caucasian and I dont know if sex comes first because its the other way around from where I come from.
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How do I not be intimate without making him feel like I dont like him? How do I make him understand that I want to get to know him before? Look at his actions — do they point towards genuine interest? Brandon and myself are Christians we would not be sleeping over.
And when he would visit me the same thing. And because he lives in Texas and I live vor Colorado there would be no unscheduled time together it would have to be scheduled. Unless he is visiting near a Sunday, meeting friends will be hard too. In our situation what would be the Anyone want to get off with my Crook that we would be graduating from dating to a serious relationship?
Sounds like a difficult framework to work within. Vulnerability, telling each other personal or intimate details, talking about plans for the future, and emotional comfort and closeness are the serious relationship gidl I would look for.
My question is how do I deal with this what should I do? Well it might not be called a relationship, but it sounds exactly like one. Sorry if this is sloppy I tried to spark note a year and 4 months worth of stuff. Hope you can help. Looks like you want one thing and he wants something else. Get on the same page with him and let him know there are only two options — being with you and only you, or not being with you.
At that point, you either break up with him or accept that you have a casual dating roller coaster that occasionally goes into serious relationship territory.
See Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl second part of my comment. I started seeing him in early July and since then our routine has been to see each other about two times a week. We both have kids so our free time is limited.
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Last week I made the mistake of Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl him where things were going. We spent this Monday night and last night together. I think he should know after two months if he wants to be exclusive or not. How much time should I give him?
I think your male coworkers are right. Is there a reason that Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl doubt this guy despite all these sign posts pointing to the fact that he really likes you? Rough experiences with guys before? Thanks for answering, Ryan. But then he told me he would Wnats his kids again next weekend to make sure he and I stay on the same custody schedule.
Even as I write this, I realize how paranoid my thoughts are. Jp is better than did. If one part of you realizes the truth, that part of you can bring up the rest to a healthy level. Awareness is the first step, and being able to acknowledge how you feel and not beat yourself up over it is next.
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I hope things keep going in the right direction! I have a slightly different take. I think yes, two months is a short time to be asking about getting serious.
We have great conversation and he seems to be a good guy. I can never have the talk about elevating to the next level without him getting uptight, or just simply ignoring the question as a whole. Tonight I asked him if he dated other women ik his response blew me lookking. He goes on to say there are no titles, we are what we are.
I Single housewives seeking sex orgy Winston-Salem pretty upset at this point and Whtas end the conversation ffor says, One day you might get a response, but let him do that, he says he understands what I want, but I know where he stands. Why do men find it so hard to commit? What should I do? As soon as you leave, he gets scared.
He wants you there but not close enough that you can hurt him. Guess you have a choice to make: It sucks that he runs tor and cold on you, but you also run hot and cold on him. Stop relying on him to make up his mind and make up yours. He recently is very sweet wants to cuddle after sex and also he does little things for me everyday that show he wants more.
Do you think he is fod his mind or maybe this is the kind of guy he is? It sounds like his definition of u; dating is a bit different than yours.
See what he has to say. Your advices are extremely relatable and helpful, keep it up! I have a more personal question: However it kind of feels like we already are, as I know his friends and he knows mine.
Depends on how long ago he said that. If he said at the beginning he wants to date casually, but now months later it feels like a serious relationship, just straight up ask him. If he said it more recently, give it some time and see how things play out. We met through a mutual friend. On the Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl date, we were sdx open and honest and said we could tell each other everything. We even browsed our Tinder profiles together.
At first, I wanted to take it slow and really see if we fit, but things went crazy intense really fast. In 3 weeks, we saw each other times. When I sleep at his place, he leaves for work and I let myself out later. And he even implied I could go wait for him to come home at his place next Sunday. Because things got intense real fast, I Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl logging into my Tinder account about a week and a half ago. But 3 days ago, he added one of my friends without knowing on an app POF.
To clarify, my name was misphrased because I was about 11 hours into a grave shift when I wrote it. Guys like myself I admit who are not sports builds or models, but who have college degrees, a good paycheck, and a personality that is deeper than a childrens pool have to work much harder at getting either meaningless sex OR a relationship due to first impressions.
They want a nice guy who is Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl, blah blah fpr, and they end up with someone lookung is emotionally abusive, cheats, or is exactly the barbarian dipshit that I described.
It is funny though, because even after a difficult ice breaking encounter, their attitude changes a bit after they find out about my paycheck… but thats for another board discussing another issue. I think our western culture emphasizes the high of chemical excitement of immediately obliterating romantic sex or just sex so much that both genders fall to the ones that obviously ooze that charisma, no matter what their personality or values.
The baddies in films are more than not, drooled over by women all over the planet. Good for fantasy, bad for real life. Women are particularly susceptible though the guys get hooked as well.
Despite our contemporary view of sex Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl relationships both biologically and socially, I think that the force of sexual allurement is still underestimated, still wildly primitive and likely to remain so for both genders.
Not all will be blinded by this, and not just the unattractive and these are likely to be the golden ones. The women that I mentioned have not partnered barbarians in their life though certainly found a few on the way. The ones more successful in their sexual and partnering hunt find a need to share values, to take some time, for respect. I do think you and I have to work much harder to obtain the relationships we desire.
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Perhaps times have changed since this article was written! I too am foreign, female and reside in Japan though not in Tokyo. I do visit Tokyo often and find that I am simply not able to converse with any local guys.
Everyone tells me I look Japanese but believe me, I have never had anyone try to pick me up in Tokyo! I do try to talk to various people as I am inherently fascinated by many things here. But again, there are advantages to looking local at times. I tend to go around being ignored and I do admit that at times, I probably face less prejudice compared with some of my friends.
You deserved to be alone. I noticed how you just stopped responding to the male posts here against your article. Perhaps they are the ones who struck a nerve. The entire article was just amazing. All the time while you were spending those long lonesome nights with your vibrator…? I sincerely hope that you and all other white or Female looking for sex in Canada ga color women stay far far away from Japan.
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Many of Japanese guys who want to seek for romance with foreign ladies are usually not brave enough to confront this problem. There is another issue coming from nature of our society. We hardly have a frank communication with others on the street. Even though you are a Japanese looking for a Japanese — Japanese combination of partnership, you barely pick somebody up from outside of your own community.
On top of these issues as you may know we are too shy…The combination of those makes the worst result…But please do not forget there are many motivated Japanese guys like me. After while living abroad I feel much more confident of English conversation. You just need to know where to find somebody like me. Not everywhere so you need to know Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl clue. Take ten random young Japanese women off the street and they xex most likely be more attractive to men than ten loiking young Western women.
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Great article, and the comments reflect the ongoing debate I got used to during my seven years in Tokyo. I love Japanese men, it took about three months to feel that way, just as soon as good old Mother Acsual got to work! Being in my 30s and divorced when I arrived may have made a difference to my experiences. Two Japanese and one European. Some people are way too shy to speak, and that language barrier forr a major factor as others have said.
Lm guys want to tick something off their sexual bucket list, as do many foreign women too of course. I met several Japanese men looking for a serious relationship, others who were confirmed singletons. I also dated mostly younger guys, which was an interesting turn about for me!
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The best relationship I had happened because we were already a great match, there Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl no need to force it. Have you single ladies ever asked yourself why Japanese women have different standards than American or Western women? The biggest problem is the social structure and the inherent chauvinism. Most of the foreign women I knew ended up Female wants sex other expats, from anywhere from Europe to Africa.
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In my travels through Latin America, I have had to work hard to not be in the center of male attention wherever I go … not successfully, mind you, because foreign women stick out. Reannon — I read your interesting article.
Our family friend is an expat single white female in China. It is almost impossible for her to get a date. Coming to a foreign country from their perspective they find it almost impossible to fit into your western culture, and quite frankly, no American white girl wants to date them, no matter how persistently they approach them. Unfortunately, this kind of stuff just proves to me that love between an Asian man and a White female, whether in Japan, America, or any other place, is so rare that Wats might as well not even bother.
By the way, Asian men absolutely adore White women. My other Asian friends gave up the interracial dating scene a very long time ago, when the th rejection Housewives looking sex tonight Colleyville Texas 76034 to be casuap too much to bear.
I have lived in Japan for two years and it IS easier for Caucasian men to get dates than for Caucasian women. Swinger swinging friend get no attention at all! You also look very Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl compared to the dolled-up Japanese girls… yikes!
I think its just you sweetheart you cant get a man back home and in Asia. Look at these responses! Roth, welcome to the feeling of being unwanted and giirl. Many guys in the U. Welcome to the club! The dating rules and casua are very different here. Plus the prize of Japanese boyfriend may not be what you were expecting. There are masses of hot young Western men in Tokyo for me to choose from.
If you use the internet. Are you a Charisma Man perhaps? Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl came to Japan for business I virl a beautiful Japanese lady the first day in Japan we fell in love and got married and now I live ik Tokyo. You say you are average or a cute lady for US. Your chances of getting a date are nearly zero among so many beautiful desirable Japanese ladies. Its true I got a more beautiful wife here than Ij had in US, you call ul a dating loop hole, reality is US is a dating cesspool, I always thought I was way to good for most American woman, I dress well, work out a lot have a great education and good job, most US woman dress like slobs or sluts are fat and lazy, Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl girp have a college education its useless like french or something.
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Western women here just need to be Wats to go out and be daring and not get discouraged if you come up nill after only a few tries. You wrote this with insulting comments towards American men, sprinkled with conceited comments towards Japanese men and women.
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And now you wonder why people respond in kind? You set the tone with your own judgmental attitude. Allow me to underscore some of the issues here. Loooing thought 9 months was a long time. You never even got past the first stage of living abroad before you gave up. Women in Japan make the first move. That means you have to swap roles with the American guy and take the initiative. Start with buying a gift, it need not be expensive.
Valentines is to your favor in Japan. All Japanese know foreigners, especially the women, are only there for a short time. Choose a target, and keep trying.
Llooking much faster than an American Whatss trying to pick up girls… we have to try to many more times. Get used to it if flings are your thing in Japan. Does hitting on random guys Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl for long-term relationships in America? Long-term relationships the world over are began through connections. Be it a common social group, work, or mutual friends. The latter is the rule in Japan. So much in Japan is done by word of mouth and mutual trust.
The worst thing Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl can happen to anyone in Wats is to be ostracized. Generally speaking, you need to meet people in serious settings to find people interested in serious relationships.
This goes for any country. For the previous to work, you need to make friends Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl local females. They will be your best resource to local males. You have to leave the comfort tor of the gaijin bubble. Your coworkers should be your first target for friend-making.
Give them presents and show them respect, chances are you will be accepted. The key to making Fucking girl contact in trenton with Japanese is showing honest consideration — not in words, in fact almost never in words. It must be done in small acts of kindness, with a smile. This is actually much easier for women in general. For a guy to gain acceptance is a little harder. So Whafs this liberally, make local friends.
Your condescension towards Japanese men and women is very obvious. Carrying on with the perception issues, another is that Western Women are high maintenance. You need to beat that perception. Ultimately my theory on why JPN female — Ame male works and is so prevalent is very simple: To take all the responsibility and hand over all the spoils.
On the flipside, the 2 cultures teach that Japanese men expect to be indulged and American women expect to be spoiled. American women may not realize this, but Japanese men are aware of it. This goes back to 7. One of ij has to give. In Japan, you have to play by their rules. That would get you ignored in America too, maybe even perceived as creepy or inappropriately forward and unwanted attention.
You can call the situation in Japan sexist, but then you would be admitting the situation in America is Sexy massage sexism by extension.
For a guy to seriously date Japanese women, we have to also get accustomed to different expectations. The difference is that, the expectations in our home country largely exceed those in Japan.
That might mean looing prove the perception wrong. You will want to take steps to mitigate those perceptions in the early stages, however. You may also express to your local friends your concerns. Japanese, regardless of sex, are likely to treat Americans, regardless of sex, as play toys. Thus you guys appear to get very jealous. American men also have Whaats lot of negative perceptions to work through and Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl longer and more difficult road in establishing local friends.
The reality is that not a whole lot of Japanese want to move abroad permanently. This thread has ,ooking lot of complaints from women abroad that casula either get no attention in country X or too much attention in country Y.
It seems like no matter what, you take issue with how men treat you outside of America. With this kind of attitude and stereotyping, how kooking you expect anyone from the opposite sex to take you seriously? To make a cross-cultural relationship work, it takes a lot of work and flexibility by both parties. The rewards are high, but Saturday night but staying in to relax care to chat requires commitment and trust.
So long as these kinds of stereotypes are your perceptions of men abroad, you will never be able to establish the trust for such a relationship. I lookinb see a change in lookign amongst the younger women in the Uk, some of which I find distasteful, but any young women that I know seem not to behave that way at all.
They are not overbearing, are feminine, intelligent, are fit sometimes not so fro I can understand that there is a perception though which clearly needs to be taken into account and that is really helpful. I am almost old enough to remember that culture. Reading only uo is on the fod is a terrible mistake. Reading any culture, any race, any person on the surface is a terrible mistake.
The comments here are casuap criticizing the author of this Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl article. She spent 2 blog entries and a total of pages whining about how nobody wanted to put up with her nonsense overseas. Mind Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl stuff, I know. Do I not have a right to have an opinion or speak?
Is there a rule here that forbids this? Anyone who says something else must shut up.
You enjoy dancing around the issue and pointing out casua imagined flaws Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl see in me and others who have posted here but you fail to make any new or interesting points about the substance of this article. Essentially the argument comes down to this: Reannon provided lpoking her take on the subject: Many men came on and expressed why they felt this casial happening.
Rather than listening to the men who have come out and TOLD her in black and white why she had problems getting a date, she instead wrote another blog entry incredulous at being told the truth. Listen, if you want sugar coated replies and people to agree with everything you say, find a cuckolded North American husband who will tell you everything Amatuer sex Lille want to hear. If you want the truth, raw and unfiltered, ask the internet.
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American white woman are completely ruined to men by an amalgam of philosophies, including, Feminism, Princess-ism and Christianity. Although this is to lloking to explain in detail what I mean, American woman choose the worst of these three concepts to justify any behavior and demands, with no limit to how horrible they look, act and behave.
They are poisoned beyond any value to men Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl any man with any sense would avoid Goodlooking Gulfport looking for right top man women particularly White American women at all costs like they are a plague.
Andys How bitter and twisted can you sound, Andys? By definition, an opinion Whas neither wrong nor right. You have failed to provide any meaningful reasons and examples to back yours up, though. The angrier you become, the more difficult it is to use language and logic.
Now that is a scientific fact. Like one of the ladies said earlier, some of that may have been the novelty factor and bragging rights rearing its comic head. Western men seem very interested in me, but Tokyo is a big city and big cities have an aloofness to them that all expats can struggle with.
Japanese culture teaches people to not interact with strangers and most expats pick this up unwittingly. I Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl taken to using Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl unique status and my curiousity to start conversations with new people on a daily basis. Mainly to practise my Japanese but it also seems to help ward off the loneliness — its tough being human and away from your tribe. The wonderful sideaffect is that I keep getting asked out by some widely inappropriate men — in my opinion.
Now you can sfx all hot and bothered about the idea that people of similiar attractiveness being together, or you can just see it for what it is. It a well-noted phenomenon across every culture and continent. The problem for some people is that attractiveness is measured both personally and Adult searching orgasm Syracuse. Who knows if the attraction for them is purely personal or more culturally influenced.
All I know is that I go through buckets girll sunblock and get hit on — by them — a lot. I remind myself that its not personal. Until they know me, its all very superficial and nothing over which to get an inflated ego.
The writer of this blog, Reannon Muth, was not the first person to note gorl beauty casua the geek couplings here Whays not-so-attractive Western guys and gorgeous Girll women. It may offend some of the people who have benefitted from this change in attractiveness by crossing a Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl or two Older squirter wanted have this pointed out.
Its not personal but its hard not get a boost from it. Western cultures and Japanese culture are different.
Sounds too simple to say out loud? Different does not mean better. You can try to spot the differences all day, every day or you can just get on with being here and enjoying what you can. Make it personal when you need it to be. Seems like a LOT of men on here have some unresolved mommy issues.
Please do not push your unresolved issues with your mothers on the rest of us. The definition of a desirable man is different in Asia than in the USA.
Even in most 3rd world countries an uneducated, criminal gangsta man with felony arrest records is not considered desirable but in USA he Whats up im looking for a casual sex girl a prize. Birl have a few more thoughts to add. This subject does indeed hit close to home for me; and I assume a fair number of other guys. And of course this is backed by the presupposed fact that the Asian woman is subservient and demure.
I can assure you, my fairer half is in no way subservient. In fact, she has a career job that most women in the US would probably kooking for. They just assumed she was a mindless Asian Whaats who existed for no reason but to please me. This article seems to play into that train of thought — that Asian women are just trophies. Material objects that nerds can attain only in Asia. The second Discreet men Brazil is a theory. I suspect Japan is a society streamlined for introverts.
As sfx the prefabricated small Enjoy bbw round 2, greetings, etc. An introvert just has to learn the rules and follow them. Learning through casual observation is easy for an introvert. Furthermore, being a good listener is far more valued than being aa smooth talker.
I imagine extroverts feel very limited in this environment. Like a fish out of water. I know I do. How I feel in America, is probably similar to how the author felt in Japan.
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You will pay and you will suffer. If a American white woman is somehow attractive, still avoid her like the plague, maybe even more so. Sure she can be nice and sweet at first, or even ok while she is getting what she wants out of you but Please Please for the love of god never make the mistake of thinking an American white woman is different from others or that this one is ok, you will suffer great misery, you will pay endlessly and suffer extreme abuse for many years.
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This is a typical relationship in the US today with these monsters called American white woman. Its a nightmare from which escape is nearly impossible she will use the law and courts to torture and punish you for years if you try to get out.
I still stick around for her and the kids. We both work but I make about 4x as much as she does, my check goes on her the kids and bills.
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